For those who haven’t been into the world of bondage before, it may seem a little daunting or awkward to think about, as pornography involves some very extreme acts. However, since many films depicted it, public interest in bondage sex has been increasing and has become quite popular among people. And now more couples than ever are being restrained and engaging in everything from blindfolds, handcuffs, and spreaders to full-time dominant/submissive relationships
Like introducing your favorite vibrator into the bedroom. Having an open and honest conversation with your partner about your sexual fantasies. As for how the two of you can assimilate them into your romantic life, it’s easier than you think. Plus, it can rekindle the spark in a sexless, inactive or boring sex life and help you bond with your partner.
The world of BDSM is all about sexuality and gender identities, and bondage can also provide a unique sensory experience for those seeking a mix of penetrative, wild, thrilling, and romantic sex.
How you play is a matter of personal preference. To find out, talk to your partner before playing.
What is bondage?
Bondage is described as “binding”, binding or restraining someone by consent. It is anything that can restrict embrace (movement), whether it is a dressing gown belt that ties the limbs to a bedpost, handcuffs, a corset, or a blanket, etc.
In the bondage umbrella where one partner takes the lead role while the other becomes submissive.
Many people compare bondage and rough sex in what they consider alike. While the issues are completely different, and in fact, the bondage can be very romantic. This can increase the closeness between the couple. Because it gives a complete thrill and wild experience. A lot of bondage games (sex) are not rough at all and are often extremely slow and sensual. The only similarity between bondage and rough sex is that both are clearly, with clear boundaries, on the act. should be discussed with you, and you should always settle on a safe word before any type of sex.
Below we are talking about some effective and important bondage sex tips.
Talk through your interests and limitations.
When we talk about dominance and submission in BDSM, we can enjoy bonding with respect by being sensitive to each other by consent: it simply means that even if your partner is tied up, you are in control. Everything, but you have to be humble towards him, with his desires, with your limitations, do whatever you want to do.
Also, both the companions should talk before doing anything new. You can choose a specific word that can close the game anytime the submissive partner feels uncomfortable.
Make foreplay an essential part.
Yes, by the way, foreplay is an important part of all sexual activities. But foreplay has a more special role in bondage sex. Use your favorite sex toys, starting with simple foreplay, and then moving up to the equipment in your bandage gear and slowly go wild as you go.
Try to talk about something dirty and sensual.
If your partner is shy or is unaware of other wild acts of sex then it is best to ask your partner to talk dirty to you. Anyone can engage in dirty talk related to BDSM topics, whether you are dominant, submissive, or both. Dirty talk allows you to express your desires. And while making your partner comfortable, it encourages you to feel free to accompany him.
Control the extreme-Orgasm.
Orgasm control, especially when performed with a man of gender, is commonly referred to as “aging”. It involves putting someone almost into an orgasm and then suddenly stopping the excitement, then repeating at will. Even if you don’t know or are new to orgasm control, you already know that delayed gratification is best. So all you have to do is learn to control it. If you are the humble partner, you can teach them and inspire them to do the same.
For example, choose a word or a symbolic verb. And when you feel that your partner is about to reach the end, stop him and use other romantic activities like caressing, mouth, or sex toys.
How to talk to your partner about bonding (Bondage-BDSM)?
Willing to try and bond but not sure how to share ideas with your partner, or how to make your partner feel comfortable? It is true that sometimes it is easier to show than to tell. If your partner is comfortable with this, you can show them videos of different bondage games that you want to try.
Porn for women is a great way to introduce your partner to different types of games for female pleasure, so you should choose video clips that explain the different aspects of bonding, which can open up conversations with your partner. and you both will be at ease. You can then discuss what interests the two of you and then encourage your partner to share their fantasies with you.
Once you’ve talked about what you’re both interested in trying out, you’ll automatically start talking more openly and automatically get comfortable.
Below are talking about some of the most important bondage sex toys (tools). Which beginners must try.
Blindfolds are one of the unique, cheapest, and easiest ways to start experimenting with BDSM. They’re usually incredibly safe and secure. A simple sleep mask can work perfectly for your BDSM play. Look for a mask that doesn’t apply direct pressure to your eyes and has an adjustable strap. If you have a blindfold that puts pressure against your eyeballs, you may notice blurry vision for a few minutes once you take it off.
Restraints are best for beginners of the BDSM world. You can get quite complicated with moderation, but if you are a beginner I would recommend starting out simple. Cuffs that are gentle on your wrists and easily come off without help. If you’re really nervous or have any doubts about using it, loosen the restrictions so you can easily detach the fastener without undoing it. If you’re a beginner, don’t use the rope at all, as the knot for this can be uncomfortable for safety.
Drip or Massage Candle
Candles are great for sensation play, but you need to make sure you buy candles that are specifically designed to be dripped onto the skin (no birthday candles!). The wax melts at a lower temperature, which prevents you from getting singed. Test them out on the palm of your hand before moving onto more sensitive areas like the chest. Make sure you have a shower curtain or tarp beneath you unless you want to try getting wax out of your nice sheets! Never melt candles on your genitals.
Pair of Handcuffs.
Pair Handcuffs are another common restraint toys (tool), and they tend to be quite user-friendly. While ropes are highly versatile, you don’t have to worry about your tying skills with pair handcuffs, and since you can also use cuffs to ensure the submissive partner is unable to touch themselves, they’re handy for experimenting with orgasm pleasure. Start with some comfy Velcro handcuffs.
Collar and Leash
A collar and leash are a must to revamp the bondage sex and take this creative role-playing adventure to the next level. Especially for those who like to enjoy sex in the role of a slave and master. This is a great set for beginners.
Leave the mind open and embrace creativity.
Although all types of sex are a great activity, when it comes to bondage sex, it becomes special. Because Bandage is a full-blown sex game full of creativity. And when it comes to creativity it couldn’t be simpler.